Are you feeling dark,
blue, deflated, down, depressed, quiet, ho-hum, hollow, or bored after the Great
American Eclipse on 21 August? Psychologists have a reason for that.
After exciting events
like a total solar eclipse, or any big life event, such as graduation,
marriage, or getting a dream job, people often fall into small pits of depression or
the blues. Periods of high-energy and high-emotion are often followed by emptiness.
The abrupt withdrawal
of stress hormones such as cortisol from our bloodstreams could be the reason
why people emotionally crash after a big life event instead of feeling relieved at
the return of homeostasis.
Psychologist Eileen
Kennedy-Moore hypothesizes why people feel hollow after high-stress events: “Post-adrenaline
blues can strike after major positive events like a wedding or a graduation,”
she says. “They can strike after a long burst of effort for a major work
deadline or after a challenging personal project, like preparing for a family
move.”
Some psychologists
link this to ‘’the contrast effect” in which people are more likely to judge their current state of mind
as either better or worse depending on the direct comparison of what came
before it. For example, a teacher may grade an average student’s paper more
harshly if it is read after a particularly brilliant essay, or a singer’s
so-so performance may be perceived as prophetic if it follows an amateur’s performance.
This effect is also
seen physiologically in visual perception where colours look different depending
on whether they are surrounded by darker or lighter shades. This phenomena
of the contrast effect is so common in the entertainment industry that it is
called post-show depression. The same thing happens when people return from
vacation.
“We are not built to
sustain such nonstop happiness; neither do the vicissitudes of life permit us
to attain it except at rare moments,” said psychoanalyst Richard O’Connor. “But
we push ourselves to be cheery, to present a false front of emotions that we
feel somehow expected to sustain. This guarantees further disappointment.” Researchers
at Manchester Metropolitan University even came up with an equation for how
down people will feel when they return from a holiday.
Ordinary life can
feel a bit bland when it’s directly contrasted with the spectacle of rare
celestial happenings or big life events: “No rain, no rainbows.”
MARTINA NICOLLS is an international
aid and development consultant, and the author of:- Similar But Different
in the Animal Kingdom (2017), The Shortness of Life: A Mongolian Lament
(2015), Liberia’s Deadest Ends (2012), Bardot’s Comet (2011), Kashmir on a
Knife-Edge (2010) and The Sudan Curse (2009).
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