Daphne Selfe, world’s oldest model, gives job advice

Daphne Selfe, at 88 years of age, is the oldest professional model in the world. She has been modelling since 1949. The Guiness Book of Records awarded Daphne the title of Oldest Professional Fashion Model in 2014.

Born in London in 1928 she grew up in an era very different from today. She was raised at a time when it was common for many women to relinquish thoughts of a career when they married. But Daphne has always chosen to do things that she enjoyed, such as training horses – one of her first jobs. Her work in a department store led, unexpectedly, to a modelling career. She is now also an author, with her book The Way We Wore: A Life in Clothes (2015).

What job advice would she give for the older woman – or man? For her, age makes no difference. ‘’I do believe there is the perfect job for everyone and this can be different jobs or careers at different phases of your life … My modelling work has been a huge blessing in my life and keeps me busy and feeling useful and appreciated, plus I get to wear beautiful clothes, go to amazing locations, and meet wonderful people.’’

Daphne’s job advice for the older person is:-

Follow your heart
Be aware of your natural gifts
Consider what you love to do or would like to do – it’s never too late
Be realistic about your current situation/responsibilities and what will suit
Embrace change and do your best
Take on unlikely opportunities and see where they lead
Be brave and courageous
You can do anything that you want – you decide
This is it – it’s not a dress rehearsal
Why retire if what you do brings you joy and satisfaction
Don’t take any notice of existing conventions and norms (when you model at 88 years old you can say that!).

http://www.daphneselfe.com

MARTINA NICOLLS is an international aid and development consultant, and the author of:- The Shortness of Life: A Mongolian Lament (2015), Liberia’s Deadest Ends (2012), Bardot’s Comet (2011), Kashmir on a Knife-Edge (2010) and The Sudan Curse (2009).

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